“If you want a
loving relationship in your life and can't figure out why one is eluding you,
remember this: you can either choose Love or choose fear.
When you choose
Love your options narrow because you have chosen to walk a narrower path of
trusting your intuition and feelings over the five senses. You cannot seek for
Love, since you can only have what already are. And if you have Love this means
you must give it away with no expectation of return.
Any expectation of
return is not love, but the fear of not having love creeping back in.
Choosing fear
outsources your happiness and makes someone else responsible for the way you
feel. You seek for Love because you believe you lack it.
Trust that you are
perfect Love in this moment and only allow in a person that resonates on this
vibration.
Do not try to
change someone, when you do this you deny the Love inside you by choosing to
deny what is Now. Love can only exist now, when you try to change someone into
an idea of what you want them to be you have decided to be in a relationship
with your projection of a possible potential of someone else. You are fooling
yourself if you think trying to change someone will make you happy. Instead,
change in yourself the things you think the other person should change.
This is why you
are not happy and fulfilled now.
The Truth is that
finding True Love is effortless for those who sit in Trust that they already
have everything that could ever be sought after. This Trust will attract a
person who is equally fulfilled; this is the only type of person capable of
Love, one who has Love to give away.”
-Jackson Kiddard
