There is a theme running within relationships about expectations of the 'other'. Expectations are based on past memory.. so we define our partner through our expectations and if they don't show up the way we expect; we get upset. They haven't conformed to our expectations and therefore betrayel arises. Then through the veil of upset, we attract from them amplified descriptions of the upset which makes it seem as if they are doing it on purpose; but they are only conforming to our upset lens. See the paradox??
Surrender into the unknown. Each moment is unique meaning it has never happened before. Our expectations try to control the uni-que into something because we fear the unknown. Sync and flow happens when we love the unexpected.. it is spontaneous.. we are allowing the unknown 'future' memory through rather than projecting what is known relative to the past personality lens.
Be the Unknown. The Unknown relative to you is what is Known relative to Source You. So being the Unknown is flowing through the description of your Love & Lover you prefer.
- Carl English